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The Qeo Family Girl, a MythSource painting
Mongghul

The Qeo Family Girl

01Identity

In a Mongghul folktale told by Changminjii, a daughter leaves her mother to live with her husband’s family in a distant village. Her younger brother repeatedly comes to bring her home, but her mother-in-law gives her one more field task each time. The girl plants and harvests rapeseed; when birds see her crying, magpies and pigeons help gather the crop. A visit is finally allowed on strict terms: she must return the next day and bring three pairs of shoes for every member of the household.

The tale follows her homecoming and the cost of that condition. She sews through the night, arrives a little late, and is killed by members of her husband’s family. Her husband returns after passing the examination to become Number One Scholar. A bird’s approach makes him suspect disaster; when his sister tells him what happened, he retrieves his wife’s body, cremates it, gathers the ashes and bones, and rides away.

SourceLong Narrative Songs from the Mongghul of Northeast Tibet: Chapter 4, The Song of the Dildima Bird; embedded folktale The Qeo Family Girl, printed pp.196-200

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02The myths

1 myth, with sources recorded for each.

After marrying, the Qeo Family Girl goes to live with her husband’s family in a distant village. Her mother misses her and sends her younger son to ask that she be allowed to visit. Each time he comes, the mother-in-law names unfinished work in the twelve-mu fields: leveling manure, digging earth, burning clods, spreading the soil, planting rapeseed, and finally harvesting it. The young woman completes the planting, but when harvest time comes she cries in the field. Magpies and pigeons fly close and help her gather the seed.

At last the mother-in-law permits a visit, but requires her to return the next day with three pairs of shoes sewn for every member of the family. The girl agrees. At her parents’ home she sews through the night and finishes the shoes, but she is a little late returning. Her mother-in-law scolds her; her father-in-law and her husband’s younger brother beat her; then the younger brother’s wife kills her with a broom. They bury her in the furrows behind the house.

Her husband returns with a mounted retinue after passing the examination to become Number One Scholar. A bird flies near him, and he wonders whether disaster has struck his wife. He refuses to dismount for the relatives who come to greet him, insisting that only his wife can make him do so. His younger sister tells him that she is dead and buried in the field. He pulls her body from the furrows, cremates it, places her ashes and bones in a small wooden box, and rides away.

The Qeo Family Girl, a MythSource painting of the scene

5 sources· checked 2026-10-03

  1. 1Long Narrative Songs from the Mongghul of Northeast TibetT1
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